Marriage..the why of it

Sudhindra Balaji... (9:48 AM) we are now discussing something else..we are discussing the fundamental root cause because of which people get married..
Sudhindra Balaji... (9:48 AM) the most basic stimulus
Kapil Jain... (9:48 AM) fear
Kapil Jain... (9:48 AM) :)
Sudhindra Balaji... (9:48 AM) of?
Kapil Jain... (9:48 AM) several things
Kapil Jain... (9:49 AM) to say, basic human characterstics are fear and laziness, fear makes us do things, laziness makes us not do things
Kapil Jain... (9:49 AM) we jump from one to another broadly based on these two
Sudhindra Balaji... (9:50 AM) hmm..so then there are different flavours of fear..
Kapil Jain... (9:50 AM) everything is driven by fear
Kapil Jain... (9:50 AM) whatever happens
Sudhindra Balaji... (9:50 AM) hmm..interesting observation
Sudhindra Balaji... (9:50 AM) i hadn't thought of it in that way
Kapil Jain... (9:50 AM) :)
Kapil Jain... (9:50 AM) i have more free time, and what is there to do :)
Sudhindra Balaji... (9:50 AM) so, people who are unmarried all their life, are more secure?
Kapil Jain... (9:51 AM) no no can not be concluded that way
Kapil Jain... (9:51 AM) they might be suffering from fear of failure
Sudhindra Balaji... (9:51 AM) so..fear gets people to marry and the same fear gets them to not marry as well
Sudhindra Balaji... (9:52 AM) yeah..sounds logical..
Sudhindra Balaji... (9:52 AM) so then its a question of which fear can be overcome..that would then result in people one decision over the other
Kapil Jain... (9:52 AM) yes, these are wholistic characterstics which are behind the rational structure we create for defining our actions
Kapil Jain... (9:54 AM) you can say that, yes
Sudhindra Balaji... (9:54 AM) you should definately comment on our blog..
Sudhindra Balaji... (9:54 AM) it will be interesting :-)
Kapil Jain... (9:54 AM) you can use this chat as comment, can't you?
Sudhindra Balaji... (9:54 AM) oh yes..and i will..in 5mins you'll see it up on the blog
Kapil Jain... (9:57 AM) and one more thing to think about, you will know how when you know who moves the torch
Sudhindra Balaji... (10:00 AM) hmm.. :-)
Kapil Jain... (10:00 AM) :)